Microblog: From Jealousy to Self-Acceptance

Jealousy is much more common than many wish to acknowledge. It often stems from the desire for what others have coupled with a lack of self-confidence, which deems us incapable of such aspirations. Sadly, jealousy makes us rage at others, engage in character assassinations, etc.

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Some feel fiercely competitive instead of jealous. This arises from the same desire for what others have but with an egotistic drive to surpass others. This thrusts us into a relentless rat race that can drain our spirits.

Healthy competition, however, shifts this narrative. There is still a desire for what others have, but alongside a belief that we, too, can reach the same heights. This converts our competitors into sources of inspiration. My journey with my monk-friend (Swami) started here. I was drawn to his wisdom and the peace radiating from him. Somewhere, though, I believed I could get there.

As I evolved, I began to see competition differently. It switched from “competition” to working on personal goals. My objective was to become a better version of myself. I mindfully spotted and eliminated my flaws.

Today, I have developed self-acceptance and no longer desire anything. I take pride in my attainments and exercise self-compassion with my imperfections. Still, I continue to learn and grow, not to “fix” myself but rather to prevent stagnation.

The path to self-transformation is clear: transform jealousy into healthy competition, then gradually shift to competing with self. Finally, when you just grow for the sake of growing, you will feel nothing but peace.

Love,
Sri Devi Om